your invitation to

slow down

have a new type of conversation

meet yourself again

SOMETIMES THINGS FIND YOU WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT…

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The Rekindling isn’t coaching. It’s something more than that. A movement. A community of gay men who have had enough with feelings of not being seen, not being enough and who know life is about more than what they’re currently feeling…

The work I do is to restore a sense of purpose, regain a sense of joy and reintroduce yourself to you: the version you want to meet.

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the promise

I work with those who feel stuck - whether that’s in their confidence, their career, or just in themselves. I’ve been in exactly that place: questioning what comes next and whether I’m capable of more. What I’ve learned is that the real change happens when you stop waiting to feel ready and start figuring who you actually are - not who you’ve been trying to be for everyone else.

I’m not here to fix you, because you’re not broken. I’m here to help you see yourself differently, make braver decisions, and move forward with more clarity, self belief, and most importantly, joy.

If you’re feeling lost right now, I promise you, you’re closer to finding your way than you think.

what working together could look like like

The rekindling

My signature offer. 12 weeks of one-to-one conversations where we break it all down and rebuild it - your way.

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the quiet conversation

A one-off meeting. Ideal if you need a reset, have a specific issue or you’re easing into your development experience.

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The GATHERING

The intimate group option. No more than 6 members, meeting once a week over 6 weeks to discuss a range of topics and explore strategies to start the process of unlocking your true self.

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THE INVISIBLE CIRCLE

The Invisible Circle is a membership community, due to launch in May 2025.

Join like-minded men and receive the exclusive Invisible Circle weekly newsletter and access to The Invisible Lounge, a monthly live call where you can listen, reflect and speak (and be heard) if you want to. A place to grow, and to feel seen .

Members also receive regular voice notes, prompts and messages to help with accountability and staying focussed.

Don’t join the Invisible Circle to change your life. Join to start noticing that you’re still living.

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Book an appointment

If you’d like to chat through what working together could look like for you, I’d love to get something in the diary. You can select ‘A Welcome Conversation’ to schedule a free half hour call. No stress, no commitment. Just a low key chat where we can work out if working together aligns with your currents needs.

If you’re ready to jump in and book a full session, ‘The Quiet Conversation’ is a 90 minute slot where we can get to the bottom of a particular issue, look at some possible strategies, and start you on the path to feeling better all round.

Either way, reaching out is the hardest part. But I promise, I’ve got you.